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I lovee friends getting engaged. I hate that awkward time after where you don’t know if you’re invited to the wedding or not. I’m fine not being invited bc I know people have very limited space in venue + general costs but I’m just anxious to know
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Anonymous 7w

I’m in that phase now, and it was so fun at first but now I’m exhausted. I’m the MoH in my best friend’s wedding, my fiancé is a groomsman in his friend’s wedding the weekend after. We can’t even think about what we’re gonna do for our own wedding because we’re trying to manage the others right now 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

how old are you if you don’t mind me asking?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

23, we got engaged pretty early because boyfriend/girlfriend didn’t feel right for our dynamic. Luckily we already planned to be engaged for a few years before a wedding anyway, but it’s still so much since our partners are both constantly pitching wedding ideas and pushing for it sooner

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

wow! are your friends all around 23 then too? like are ppl getting engaged younger now or smthn

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

More or less, my best friend is 25 and my fiancé’s friend is 24. To be fair, those friends are both in very long term relationships from like middle and high school and the rest of our friends are still aggressively single 😅 it’s a weird mix, we also have friends who have a baby together but are just dating still

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

ah ok that makes sense, i was like damn what’s going on 😭

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