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thoughts on age gap 20 and 24 yr old?
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Anonymous 9w

not good. developmentally in entirely different places. i don’t think a loving long term relationship could come from that

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Anonymous 9w

probably depends where yall are in life i guess. i’m 20 and would be fine with a 24 year old but ive been graduated from high school since 2022 and am going into my 4th year of college classes and feel relatively mature enough for that gap but like a 20 ye old going into sophomore year probably not a good idea

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

that’s what i’m thinking my friend she’s still in school and her gf is 24 they met at work 2 years ago but just started dating this year but like that age gap

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

yeah… esp meeting at 18 and 22 :/ idk i think maybe just watch out for ur friend and if she’s becoming victim to any controlling behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

i feel like they are in the same place in life sometimes they both have apartments and cars they both work full time they travel together with their own money and the friend group is like 19-26 yr olds because of work 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

yea imma be keeping on eye on her she did break things off at one point cuz her gf wouldn’t tell their friends that’s she’s gay let alone family cuz they’re homophobic but they got back together after she told her friends about their thing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

yeah atp that’s all u can do, it’s a good thing that ur supporting her if things to end up taking a turn for the worse

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

The fact they’re in the same state of life makes it better I think. It evens the playing field as far as the power balance. That said, as a 24 year old I wouldn’t do it💀. But it works for some people

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