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Me when my bf doesn’t text me back for an entire day and a half even after I ask him why he’s ignoring my ass 😊😊😊
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Anonymous 5w

He just told me he failed out of college n I spent a lot of time trying to show him I was still there for him n that I still loved him, trying to cheer him up bc he was having a melt down after telling me. N now broski is ignoring me💯💯 like sick man thanks for that

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Anonymous 5w

i think you should give him some time. failing out of college is a really big life change and comes with all kinds of feelings of shame. i wouldn’t be surprised if he’s just deeply depressed right now and doesn’t want to talk to anyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I understand this n it’s why I don’t really hold it against him. I knew smthing was up this past weekend but I thought it was smthing different. I don’t think he intended to tell me. I had said I accepted being a recruiter at a career fair at his college to see him when he’s in school n he responded negatively. I teared up bc he didn’t mention the date he was leaving n now he’s upset im visiting. Obviously that wasn’t the case. It forced him to tell me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

But he was laughing n smiling n seemed happy n safe w me when I dropped him off that night even tho he just had a melt down. I thought he’d at least feel safe enough or care enough to tell me he doesn’t want to talk rn. Maybe not. Thanks for ur response

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

ah yeah that’s a tough situation :( i don’t think it’s that he doesn’t feel safe or care. emotions ebb and flow and just because he came to a resolution or got some relief that night doesn’t mean he’s ok now. i have gotten into depressive episodes where i ghost people i love more than anything, not because i don’t care about them, but because i’m in such a low place

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’ll leave it to him to reach out. We go days w out talking regularly (cuz we argue a lot🥀 ) but I’m not gonna hold it against him

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