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When’s a good time to introduce sex into your relationship. I feel ready but I’m not sure how to do it. My other relationships it was kinda pushed on me. But I’m so safe and comfortable in this one I’m not sure how to bring it up.
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Anonymous 9w

Id just talk about it with him. It might feel awkward to bring up but if you’re genuinely thinking this is gonna last starting good conversation now will be helpful long term!

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Anonymous 9w

My bf and me waited about three months, we only kissed a few times prior to that. Waiting definitely made it better imo

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Anonymous 9w

Also I don’t want it to change our relationship. It’s never happened to me before but this guy is everything I’ve wanted and more. This is a new feeling considering I’ve never had to worry in my past relationships that my man was gonna change the way he sees me. But I’m so nervous with this one.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

ask him how he’s feeling in regards to that and tell him you feel ready but don’t need to rush! he shouldn’t feel any differently about you, sex is a very normal thing and can be very intimate and sweet

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