I genuinely don't judge anyone who does this because we all have different lives but I cannot fathom why you'd have a baby with a person you're not married to. Like a child is a much bigger commitment than marriage. If he won't marry you. . .
Bahhaha frrrr my thoughts exactly when I give my friends side eye when they complain abt their bby daddy like gurl man wasnt gonna marry you what made you think he would take care of the bby
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Anonymous23h
I keep being called judgmental for saying this!! Like girl a baby is lifelong commitment and most people get divorced anyway. He’s way more likely to leave if he won’t marry you first
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Anonymous#11d
Like we been KNEW he wasn't husband material so why did we let him be a father
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Anonymous#11d
Like I'm not having a child with a man I can't trust fully as my partner
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AnonymousOP1d
Frrrrr theres sooo many men with father material with husband material men out there if he can’t be either one or none Hes GONE! off my roster 😂😂
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Anonymous#11d
And then you're tied to this man for the rest of your life basically or at the very least 18 years
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Anonymous#223h
I mean I'm not gonna be mean to someone for it but I think it's not the most mature choice. I know some people it's an unexpected pregnancy and they want to keep it which is valid but my point is knowingly choosing that feels like a poor decision to me