my friend gave me a silly nonsense nickname that was cute at first but now as more people use it its starting to feel dehumanizing. like it’s fine when she and my friends do it but her bf does not have that privilege (ctd in comments)
u should tell her u don’t want her bf calling u that, that sucks
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Anonymous#112w
its a weird situation bc everyone calls me it now and there’s another girl in our larger social circle with my name so it makes sense to differentiate. so like if i tell the bf to stop i have to tell everyone to stop or else im singling him out.
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Anonymous#112w
but also they’ve been dating less than a month and he’s already said he loves her knowing she wasn’t ready (unintentionally but still) and has a habit of mooching off of me so maybe i just dont like him
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AnonymousOP12w
u don’t have to tell everyone to stop! just say ur not close enough for u to be comfortable with it. totally normal boundary to set