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my friend gave me a silly nonsense nickname that was cute at first but now as more people use it its starting to feel dehumanizing. like it’s fine when she and my friends do it but her bf does not have that privilege (ctd in comments)
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Anonymous 12w

actually not ctd i dont have anything more to say

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Anonymous 12w

u should tell her u don’t want her bf calling u that, that sucks

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

its a weird situation bc everyone calls me it now and there’s another girl in our larger social circle with my name so it makes sense to differentiate. so like if i tell the bf to stop i have to tell everyone to stop or else im singling him out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

but also they’ve been dating less than a month and he’s already said he loves her knowing she wasn’t ready (unintentionally but still) and has a habit of mooching off of me so maybe i just dont like him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

u don’t have to tell everyone to stop! just say ur not close enough for u to be comfortable with it. totally normal boundary to set

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