
I don’t have empathy for women like this. A lot of them like the attention they get from complaining rather than fixing the issue. And they burn bridges with friends and family over a man who doesn’t gaf about them, at some point you gotta deal with the decisions you make 🤷♀️ it’s not on anyone but them to dig themselves out
i do have empathy for them in abusive situations where it’s clear that he’s trying to isolate her from friends and family. i’ll always stick by her in case she needs help. but when he’s just acting disrespectful or rude and she’s clearly unhappy i do get tired of it and start to distance myself