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Girl Talk 17w
Idc if some of y’all don’t like this, but I don’t want my wedding to be a place where I meet someone for the first time
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Anonymous 17w

this. i also want no kids at my wedding. fuck them kids and if ppl get mad at me for that then they don’t have to go.

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Anonymous 17w

why would anyone care about YOUR wedding preference? like wdym by “idc if some of y’all don’t like this” 😂

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Anonymous 17w

i’ve never even been in a relationship but i don’t want ppl that i haven’t met or that my partner hasn’t met at our wedding. if someone is important enough to me, he’ll meet them. if he hasn’t met them, they clearly haven’t been that important and won’t make a difference if they’re at our wedding (unless it’s a geographical difference that caused this)

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Anonymous 17w

it took me forever to get what you were saying but i agree 😭

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Anonymous 17w

I’m inviting a couple people I’ve never met but they’re both plus-ones of people I’ve known for years. Whereas my college roommate’s boyfriend who I have met is not invited and if she asks for a plus one I will tell her that that idiot will ruin my day if he shows up at my venue and he needs to stay away

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Anonymous 17w

My father in law got so mad at us when my husband & I said we didn’t want ppl I’ve never met at my wedding. He wanted to invite 50+ distant relatives but didn’t wanna pitch in for catering. His cousins & aunts are still mad at me 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> slutty_anakin 17w

(I agree with your statement tho

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Anonymous replying to -> slutty_anakin 17w

Some people (especially extended family) get mad when you don’t invite your extended family who you barely know but think they deserve an invite cause y’all are related

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

OHHHH I misread this thinking you’re talking about some arranged marriages. I also agree with your comment

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

Yeah I have cousins who have kids who I have never met and they have gotten mad over their children not being invited to other family members weddings so I know they will say the same for mine

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Anonymous replying to -> slutty_anakin 17w

Oh no no it’s like when you put together your guest list and you have your mom say she wants you to invite her college roommate you don’t even know. Like I’m not giving some random person who has had no impact in my life a seat at my wedding

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

Oh sorry about that! I hope the comments help get a better understanding what I’m trying to get across

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

Oh yeah a cousin of mine’s wife isn’t invited cause she has made multiple weddings about herself. At one of them she did a baby announcement and gender reveal. My cousins and I were so pissed especially cause my cousin didn’t tell his wife that it was super inappropriate to do that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Insane behavior. We’re excluding one family on my fiancé’s side because the dad showed up drunk to other weddings and ruined them and the kids probably should be in prison lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

Oh my gosh wow. Yeah I come from a big family and we have some crazy people like that too

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Anonymous replying to -> virgosgroove 17w

Yeah it’s crazy how when people find out you are getting married they think that they can just give you a list of people to invite. Like if you want to have a party with those people throw your own party don’t invite them to mine

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

also i will not be trying to make rounds to thank everyone for coming. im incredibly socially awkward enough as it is. i want to be able to enjoy the night and NOT stress out about talking to everyone at the reception

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