See, me and my bf both have friends and bestfriends of opposite gender. Both of us were skeptical of them the first month until we started introducing them and now we are formed a giant friend group

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this this this. like no i’m not dropping my best friend of many many years bc some other guy “can’t trust” him. if i can’t keep my friends, you’re not my soulmate

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it's one thing to have a partner that's done shady things and to mistrust them for those things, but to think any person with an opposite-sex friendship can't be trusted is a sign of deep insecurity and an unreadiness for meaningful romance also ask yourself, how long do you want to micromanage and fear a partner's friends? u gonna be doing this in ur 30s? 50s? 70s?

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