Anonymous _berry_ 10w

But also could she have accidentally used my card, like my bf said he’d pay me back and he is, but i really think she knew idk why I feel that way. Like u can see the card when u pay right? I’m not tweaking right?

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Anonymous OP 10w

When u pay if u pay on the app it just shows u the last couple digits which could mean your card could have been accidentally saved as the primary card when u added it and she didn’t realize it changed

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Anonymous OP 10w

I feel like it doesn’t really matter if he is going to pay you back, it’s your bf sister and maybe some day will be your sister in law, unless she’s shown vindictive behavior or are not getting the money back u might be over thinking it

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Anonymous _berry_ 10w

It doesn’t matter if she did it on purpose or not (bc you don’t have any indication that it is on purpose at the moment)

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Anonymous _berry_ 10w

She’s shown vindictive behavior before, okay my bf was insistent on paying me back but it was only $35 and my parents like to closely monitor my bank account and they don’t know that I have a bf and don’t want me having one so I said it’s fine cuz I don’t want my parents going nuts. Also my bf pays for like all of our dates so it’s really fine for me idm

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Anonymous OP 10w

He removed my card though

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Anonymous OP 10w

I have a bad family situation, currently trying to get out and finance independent but it’s taking time so that’s why my parents are still on my account, I’m making a new account without them and closing this one in like a month or 2

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Anonymous OP 10w

It seems like you’re mad at her because it’s inconvenient and can expose you. But genuinely you might be blowing it out of proportion bc it has a negative effect on a leaning of tower of cards you have with your parents which is not her fault. I think probably just make sure in the future u remove your card after you buy something. I’m not sure that has much to do with his sister? You can also always tell them u ordered something and they double charged u and your getting a refund etc.

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Anonymous OP 10w

I don’t know why someone who is vindictive would even do that unless she’s purposely trying to get u into trouble with your parents then maybe but seems like a stretch and very minor

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Anonymous _berry_ 10w

Yeah ur right, I just got scared at the moment

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Anonymous OP 10w

If u have a bank like chase if you are the primary you can just remove them as co

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Anonymous _berry_ 10w

Nah I just got a state specific bank, it’s more private so it doesn’t have to follow major laws and I can’t remove my parents off the account without physically going there. My parents also don’t let me leave my house, it’s complicated but I’m figuring it out. My bank also has had a messy merger so I’m closing it and getting another account elsewhere. I tried chase but they have fees, so I’m thinking capital one

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Anonymous OP 10w

There are no fees to open a account if you meet certain requirements every bank has fees and requirements

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Anonymous _berry_ 10w

For checking

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Anonymous _berry_ 10w

Capital one doesn’t have fees for checking accounts

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Anonymous OP 10w

Gotcha!

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