Anonymous #6 1d

I lost mine a month ago (my bf and I lost it together) he was the first man to make me want to do it and even though we didn't know what we were doing and were just trying things out together, having that intimate and loving moment just felt so wonderful

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Anonymous #6 23h

Girl don’t be afraid I recently lost my virginity and it didn’t hurt! Use a condom and lubricant!! It’s important. And I recommend you get on top so that you are more in control and you can do it as slow (or fast) as you like! Because if he’s on top you don’t have as much control over the speed, so you’ll need to tell him to be gentle.

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Anonymous #6 23h

Also, don’t rush yourself!! Go slow! Because if you just try to shove it in there as fast as possible then it’s gonna hurt! Lol

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Anonymous #9 23h

It almost always sucks, it was bad for me too

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Anonymous #13 22h

They’re so ugly

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Anonymous #4 22h

it was fun, i’m still sore but im happy it went well and didn’t end up being one of those horror stories i hear from like 90% of the people i talked to

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Anonymous #6 22h

genuinely not bad, did hurt and still sore. definitely felt different than toys but it went surprisingly well. he’s also experienced and lead but he said i did well so yay? wasn’t expecting it at all bc we’re just friends but he was really caring and i don’t regret it at all

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Anonymous OP 22h

Awww I’m so happy for you

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Anonymous #13 22h

i’ve never seen on up close irl so i was like poking it and stuff but idk it just looked like a dick to me? i didn’t really have a reaction until after the first round and i was lowk playing w it and flinging it around😭😭

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Anonymous #10 22h

it was, thank you!!

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Anonymous #11 22h

tyy<3

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Anonymous #9 22h

it hurt and felt like pressure even after he was “preparing” me for it or whatever but it also kinda felt good? the second round felt better for sure

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Anonymous #7 22h

def don’t rush into it if it makes you feel uncomfortable, i wasn’t expecting to do it at all esp since we’re just friends. i took a moment to think it through and he even questioned me bc he knew i was waiting for a serious committed relationship to do it and i was like “yeah ok let’s do it” and it happened. don’t regret it though

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Anonymous OP 22h

did it feel good?

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Anonymous #14 22h

it did but it also hurt. second round felt much better

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Anonymous #15 22h

OMG YAYYYY THATS SO EXCITING!!!! SO PROUD OF YOU🫶🏼🫶🏼

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Anonymous OP 21h

Okay great it’s good it went well I’ve heard bad things too

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Anonymous OP 20h

maybe we’ll try round two next time bc i feel bad bc he liked it but i don’t really get the hype? idk it was literally no feeling but pressure

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The downvotes 😭

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Anonymous OP 15h

Bro trust me I literally have to wait until the end of December because I’m still living with my parents and once I move out it’s SEXY TIME! bro me and him are SEXTING ALMOST EVERY NIGHT THIS WEEK! He LITERALLY AND KNOWINGLY talked me through …. You know…. Last night. AND this afternoon when we were texting again I said “I loved talking to you last night, you’re very romantic” AND HE SAID “oh, did you like it? How did it go last night? Did you finish what you were doing🤭?” BROOOOOOOOOOOOO

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Anonymous #9 15h

I lost mine a month ago, it definitely felt like pressure but the romantic moment with my bf is what made me enjoy it, it wasn't just s*x it was being playful and respectful and loving and wonderful, it did hurt a little bit and I was sore for a couple days but it was worth it. It's def a learning curve with finding what positions feel best. And tbh I miss it, my bf and I are long distance and I just want to be with him and explore more lol

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Anonymous #19 15h

I genuinely never thought I would, I was lucky to come across a man who made me want to and feel so comfortable with to do so

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Anonymous #8 15h

I genuinely want to but I’m so scared of intimacy.

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Anonymous #23 15h

Mine was a bit of both, we had officially started dating the same night. I honestly just waited for the man who made me feel completely comfortable, all of my insecurities disappear when I am with him, and he was the first person to make me truly feel like I wanted to lose mine

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Anonymous #7 15h

Awww

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Anonymous #8 15h

And GUESS WHAT! When I answered, “yes I loved it! And yes I did but I’m a bit embarrassed to admit it” he replied back with “why embarrassed? It’s okay, it’s perfect 😍 “ with the emoji and everything!!!! BBBRRRRROOOO GIRL IM SO EXCITED

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Anonymous #19 15h

I was for the longest time. I told my best friend I lost my v card and she legit said "what happened to never doing it and just adopting" I had been saying that for years, and then I came across my favorite man in the universe who made me feel so comfortable with intimacy when I was with him. He made me feel like royalty even while I was undressed. He is the sweetest person and was extremely respectful the whole time

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Anonymous #7 15h

Omg I love this! My bf and I sext every so often and sometimes ft while we shower and it's more romantic than I ever thought it would be

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Anonymous #8 15h

I’m still a virgin, this guy was my first kiss and everything! He’s more experienced than me because he’s older than me (don’t worry I’m 20) so he knows that I get really nervous. FRANKLY, I really like sexting because even when kissing him I’m really flustered so doing spicy things over text gives me time to actually think about being sexy😅

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Anonymous #7 15h

I get it lol he wasn't my first kiss but my first makeout and I am his first everything, I was nervous the whole time but being able to look into his eyes and see his loving smile took all the stress away

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Anonymous #8 15h

Lowkey think I'm in love lol

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Anonymous #8 15h

That sounds awesome🤤 me and him haven’t done anything sexual in person besides makeout but in between kisses he pulls away to look into my eyes and smile at me and ask if I’m ok with that smug grin of his!! I lowk love that guy

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Anonymous #7 15h

Omg my man has done the same to me it's such a turn on it's so cute

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Anonymous #8 15h

God I love it! He always holds and caresses my face while kissing me! The first time he touched me was when he went to say goodnight to me while I was sitting in my car (we used to work together) and he reached in, snapped the rubber band on my wrist, squeezed my shoulder, ran his fingers through my hair and took my hand!!! THEN FOR THE REST OF THE CONVO HE WAS MASSAGING MY HAND!!!!

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Anonymous #7 15h

I am obsessed! I love love! And ugh when he holds my hand or kisses my body it feels like I'm floating on sparkles

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Anonymous #8 15h

I KNOW RIGHT?!! Bro one time we were making out and he genuinely had to hold me tighter and steady me when he pulled away!!! Another time he noticed that I was shaking (because I was really flustered) and he pulls away and asks if I’m ok and I’m like “YEAH I’m good, I’m nervous, my hearts beating fast” and in response he firmly presses his hand on my chest, right above my heart. Not sexual at all!!! And after a second he does that SEXY CHUCKLE!!! GIRL

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Anonymous #7 15h

Omg the morning after I was laying down in the edge of the bed and he was standing over me, he leaned over to kiss my 🍒he was going back and forth between the two and I jokingly asked him which one was his favorite and he said this one and kissed me on my lips it was so cute and romantic! The way he chooses me over anything sexual, I love him

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Anonymous #8 15h

Girl that literally sounds like heaven!!!!! I’m so excited to spend the night with my guy; he so respectful when we make out he never touches me anywhere private, he always has his hands on my hips or my waist or on the wall behind me (like pinning🤤) or on my face! And the times that he doesn’t he just has his arms wrapped around me holding me close it’s SO FREAKING AWSOME!!! Over text he’s told me that “my spark is needed” when he misses me!!

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Anonymous #9 15h

it wasn’t necessary enjoyable or felt good to me up until like my 3rd/4th time. and all times i was “ready” and it was all with my bf but i think our bodies just take some time to adjust

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Anonymous #7 15h

Omg! On our first date these people were being so disrespectful and he could tell it was upsetting me so after we walked away, I started to angry cry and he just pulled me close and held me and brought me to go sit in his car and it was so special it didn't feel embarrassing at all cause he let me be vulnerable so early on it brought us closer and it was lovely

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Anonymous #8 15h

Omg that sounds amazing!!! I was upset and tired one time while at work (when I was still working with him) and he noticed and when he came up to my car for a kiss goodnight he was like “don’t get out of your car, stay there I’ll come to you” and he made sure I was ok and while we talked i rested my head on his arms as he leaned into my car and he played with my hair and my earrings with his other hand. He even rubbed by ear which was SOOO relaxing! He kept kissing my forehead and cheeks!!!

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Anonymous #7 15h

Awwwww omg

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Anonymous #8 15h

Girl you and me both in heaven 🤣

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Anonymous #7 15h

We are 🤭

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Anonymous #7 14h

What all did I just read. So the reason I can’t keep a steady relationship with a woman is because I need to talk about sex all the time to them. Yall freak lil shits💀. All love tho no offense

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Anonymous #27 14h

🤣🤣

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Anonymous #27 14h

GIRL AND YOU KNOW WHAT!!! The convo before the sexting is about life regrets, politics, or near death experiences like wtf 😳???!!!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous #7 12h

Don’t do ittt

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Anonymous #32 11h

lets do it

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Anonymous #31 10h

I’d like to get to know you a little bit first.

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Anonymous #32 10h

nah i dont do that pussy shit

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Anonymous #31 10h

I know you got some STDs

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Anonymous #14 10h

yeah fuh no

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Anonymous #31 10h

Yeah. Not gonna happen.

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Anonymous #7 5h

Oh my god you kinda just gave me a new perspective a few years ago one of my birdie ends held me down and forced me to kiss him and I’ve been to scared to anything since but you guys are making this sound so romantic I might try it again ❤️

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