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Girl Talk 9w
Fought with my bf again over me not wanting to change my last name when we get married I’m so tired of it
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Anonymous 9w

That’s actually so wild. It’s not a requirement to change your last name. If he wants to match so bad why doesn’t he change his to yours 🙄??

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Anonymous 9w

ngl it seems like a pain to change it anyway

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Anonymous 9w

also people go by their partner’s name socially without legally changing their name. i feel like that could be a good compromise if you’re willing, but you’re valid for not wanting to do it altogether and i hate he tries to push that on you

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Anonymous 9w

I got married and didn’t change my last name who fucking cares like why is it a big deal? It’s a lot of paper work lol not even worth the hassle and money

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Well that’s not a valid reason in his eyes and honestly no reason seems to be valid anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

honestly tough shit for him 🤷🏻‍♀️ seems like he just wants to argue for no reason

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

a petty part of me would tell him to change his last name to yours then and just say "it isn't a valid reason" to anything he says

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

I made a point as to how I don’t expect him to change his last name and he looked at me like I was crazy for bringing that up because that’s different apparently

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