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Girl Talk 7w
Can I say something controversial? Women need to stop having kids with men they’re not married/engaged to. Boomer take but if ur 20+ & find out ur pregnant marry the guy who got u pregnant it’s safer that way
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Anonymous 7w

nah never get tied down to a bum ass man bc even if it’s safer legally, what if u find someone that actually treats you well and you have to waste all that time and money on a divorce?

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Anonymous 7w

This is like a really dumb thing to say but I do slightly get your point

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Anonymous 7w

I think this is valid if you change “married/engaged” to not in a serious committed lifelong relationship with

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Anonymous 7w

No because why do I know multiple girls who have 3-4 kids all from different ex boyfriends

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Anonymous 7w

I mean “safer” like legally. My sister is going through a nasty custody battle bc she & her bf broke up and she’s having to track down every man she slept with during the conception window & asking them to do a paternity test bc the BD refuses 😭 pls stop giving kids to BUMS

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Anonymous 7w

i get u dont mean in every situation but that last line is just...😟 imagining all the circumstances ppl could apply it to & YIKES "i found out im pregnant by my abuser ig now i have to marry him🤷‍♀️" "i found out im pregnant by my rapist ig now i have to marry him🤷‍♀️" "i found out im pregnant by my..." fill in the blank😀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Yeah I should’ve said that tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

I disagree. In the event of a separation, it is so much easier legally for the parents to be married. Makes custody agreements and splitting anything else so much easier

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

And period

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

In my comment I said “pls stop having babies with bums” so we have the same sentiment

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

Obviously we have to use a bit of common sense & deduct that I didn’t mean someone should marry their abuser bc they got pregnant 😭 I mean ppl who were dating & got pregnant

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

IK GIRL IK😭 i just *also* know theres a large percentage of the population who lack that common sense & would interpret what u said EXACTLY like that...the whole "i love waffles" oh so u hate pancakes thing🥲

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