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i went out with someone the other day. how do i ask them if it was a date? is it too early?
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Anonymous 6w

There’s no way that wasn’t a date

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Anonymous 6w

What did yall do? Cause I feel like context of what you did and how yall acted is important

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Anonymous 6w

idk hinge, can you say in your preferences if youre looking for friends or a relationship? but also no guy pays for everything on the first time meeting a guy friend to hangout.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

we went out to lunch and then walked around the mall. normally i would think this is a just friends thing but we matched on hinge and he payed for lunch and ice cream

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I would 100% ask. You could word it like hey just wanna check and see where you’re head was at and if we’re in the same page, was the other day just a hang out or was it date

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

no i cant do that i REALLY like him and i don’t want him to think i’m weird. if he doesn’t like me back and he didn’t think it was a date then he’ll think i’m crazy and obsessed

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

i really want him like he’s so special i don’t want to find out he doesn’t like me i’m so scared

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

But wouldn’t you rather found out sooner than later to know if it’s a waste of time or not? You could reiterate you had a great time and you hope you can do it again and see what he says and then ask if it was just a hangout or whatever. I feel like yall gotta communicate about what’s going on and if you met off hinge then I feel like you have every right to be like yo was it a date. But you gotta do it in a way that’s you yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

i’m so scared i’m gonna mess this up everythjng is perfect so far

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