Anonymous #1 4w

I’m a psych major

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Anonymous #2 4w

Exactly, she responded to a doctor who was clearly being empathetic to her and indicated she wanted love and he gave it to her. Whether professional or not, it’s the kind of support women desperately crave nowadays, and when she found out it was just professional she reacted accordingly. None of this is on her

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Anonymous OP 4w

“reacted accordingly” is a stretch, but i get what you mean because i know how it registered. that being said, the best thing for her to do would be get the hell off the internet, but i don’t think she will. she’s gonna ride this high until it ends, and then she’s gonna have a lottttt of pieces to pick up

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Anonymous #2 4w

Mmhmm, and I honestly blame men like her boyfriend and her psychiatrist for manipulating her whether for sex or for money. She gets off Scott free as far as I’m concerned

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It does, thank you! 😘

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I know you meant it as one though

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Anonymous OP 4w

i rly do fail to see how she was manipulated here. anything can set off a manic episode or psychosis, and i think him saying their relationship was purely business was that. even in her own stories about him, she doesn’t really make him out to be manipulative. exes though? maybe could be a trigger for these issues, that i don’t know

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Anonymous #2 4w

She fell in love with her psychiatrist and he did nothing to push her away and just continued taking her money. That’s what’s manipulative about it

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Anonymous OP 4w

you could make a case that it’s kind of odd, but you could also make the case that it was the professional thing to do. she could’ve sued or tried to report him for patient abandonment had he dropped her. my honest guess is he kept her after thinking it was just a small thing he could gloss over and then it blew up. i don’t believe there’s a fault here

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Anonymous #2 4w

And yet people are hating on her for some reason. Like she should somehow “know better” but didn’t, those people are garbage beings.

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Anonymous OP 4w

He made it clear to her that their relationship was strictly professional and I don’t think it’s wrong that he wanted to help his patient.

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Anonymous #4 4w

He abused her and used her love as means to stay financially lucrative.

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Anonymous OP 4w

That man did not abuse her. Be so fr. He wasn’t scheming to get rich. Sometimes patients develop psychosis with their psychiatrist as the target, but that psychosis is why they need a psychiatrist in the first place. He shouldn’t leave her without help just because she fixated on him.

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Anonymous #5 4w

How.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Because she needs help.

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Anonymous #5 4w

That’s what he should have been doing 🙄

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Anonymous OP 4w

Which he almost certainly was. She’s pissed he kept professional boundaries and the most she has was basically “he gave me a look.” His actions clearly show his boundaries.

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Anonymous #5 4w

Should he have talked about it more clearly? Yes. But she has an issue of infatuation, not love, because of transference. She is in need of support from another professional who that transference likely won’t carry over to. From her own testimony, though, he hasn’t done anything unethical.

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Anonymous #4 4w

He was abusive and he could have refused her as a client at anyone but didn’t. Sounds like he just wanted her money or for Suggs

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Anonymous OP 4w

How the hell was he “abusive”? Because he asked if she was having any side effects from medication? 😂

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Anonymous #5 4w

He led her on and didn’t explicitly cut ties. She was clearly problematic and he could have dropped her at any point but didn’t. That doesn’t sound very professional 😭

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Anonymous #6 4w

also i used to think similarly to you that the psychiatrist was in the wrong for not ending the sessions, but i saw another psychiatrist talk about how in school they are trained that if a patient confesses their feelings to them, not to immediately drop them because that can cause more damage and feelings of abandonment after the patient was just vulnerable with them. instead they are supposed to talk through those feelings and examine them with the patient

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Anonymous OP 4w

How did he “lead her on”? 😂

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Anonymous #7 4w

She’s definitely struggling with transference and he’s done nothing to reciprocate the feelings. He’s bound by privacy laws, though, so he can’t even say anything about her. Her own accounts show how it’s all on her, though.

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Anonymous #7 4w

She also has proven to be an unreliable narrator

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Anonymous #10 4w

And manipulates her own “clients”.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Yeah he wanted her for sex so bad that he purposefully kept all their sessions online till she found out and forced an in person session. Sounds like he was really tryna fuck 🙄

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Anonymous #9 4w

Yeah but OP shouldn’t be trying to place blame on the psychiatrist, especially when the account of this situation comes from an unreliable source.

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Anonymous #7 4w

Oh I didn’t read any of the comments, just the op. I can’t say if he handled her appropriately just based off her unreliable account and since I’m not trained in that field but she should have taken better care to keep his identity hidden 100% and he doesn’t deserve any hate. She should have deleted that video immediately when she accidentally slipped his name

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Anonymous #5 4w

The answer is he didn’t because the only version of the story we have is distorted at best and can’t be used as an accurate account.

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Anonymous #7 4w

Exactly! “He asked me if I was feeling okay with my meds… that clearly means we’re getting married!” She needs serious help.

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