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this guy like sucks with texting like conversation, but he texts me to like hang out and is super attentive while hanging out and like caring and showing love. should i just accept that he isn’t really a texted or like is this a red flag
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Anonymous 18h

Maybe talk to him about it? Like straight up say that everything else is great just he feels dry I’ve text

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Anonymous 18h

He might just suck at texting. If you can’t hang try calling or FaceTiming him and see if he’s as attentive

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Anonymous 18h

i suck at texting. some ppl just do 🤷

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Emphasize the parts you like

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

yeah on calls he talks a lot, i’m guessing he is just bad at texting but like i like to text too especially when i can’t talk on the phone lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

yeah i’m trying to find a way to talk about it to him without sounding like mad or like i need him to be texting me all the time or anything. trying to not sound crazy 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

Not sure why you’re getting hate for this, it’s true. My best friend (whom I met in kindergarten 😭) almost NEVER texts back, but guess what? We FaceTime and we pick up exactly where we left off whether it’s been a day or two months since we last spoke.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

i also have some friends like this but like with a bf it just feels like it shouldn’t be like that lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Ah, that’s true- missed that part somehow

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

well i guess i did say “this guy” 😂

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