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Girl Talk 8w
Bro everytime I ask my best friend to hangout her dumbass fiance tags along 😐like we’re literally just shopping you dont have to come with wtf
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Anonymous 8w

say something to her about it

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Anonymous 8w

If you can get her alone for something (even if it’s a girls trip to the bathroom “for safety”), some gentle probing to look for red flags of abuse might not be a bad idea. Refusing to let a SO go out with friends without them is a common tactic by abusers, especially smarter ones… some of them have realized that isolation is too big of a red flag to family and have started doing this instead

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

You think I dont? 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

then tell him ab it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

or do plan very deliberately to where he can’t go. like say omg i got you and i tickets to this movie and before/afterwards we can go shopping or go eat. we’re going to be seats J8 and J9 and send a ss of it or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Girl you think I dont tell him either 🤣🤣 I’ve done it multiple times and I rarely hangout with her now because of it so now I just complain because he’s not letting me hangout w my best friend so yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I could do that yeah ill buy tickets for next tuesday or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

lmk how it goes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

wait have you tried absolutely crashing tf out at them? i’ve only had to resort to that once or twice in my life but it gets the point across

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I’ve come to the point where I think they just have insane separation anxiety from eachother. He engaged on their first year together and moved in together as well and it was their 2nd anniversary tog in june. I see their pov but going from growing up and hanging out w her everyday at home and school to never seeing her or always hanging out w her and her fiance just ruins the vibe for me but idk. I’ve gotten upset at them both before but i guess its whatever life happens

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