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Me and a friend were talking about our plans for the future, and I mentioned that after I get settled and established in my career, I’d like to get married/have a kid, she said to me that I would be selfish for wanting to bring a child into this world
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Anonymous 12w

I know she has a point, but also she hates kids, she’s been weird about me mentioning wanting to eventually have a family, saying stuff like she’d never babysit (which I’d never ask her to do lol) mind you we’re 21, I’m no where near to having kids but idk her reaction was so odd, and I’ve tried telling her that we can have different opinions, and she doesn’t get it 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 12w

I get so tired of hearing “it’d be awful to bring a kid into this world!” If everyone stopped having children in times of crisis we’d all have been extinct by now. Have the babies if you want the children, there’s nothing selfish about it

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Anonymous 12w

choosing to have children is selfish no matter the state of the world so i’ve never understood that argument against having em. i want kids so i’m having kids, if u want kids then u should have kids :)

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