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why cant my GIRL LESBIAN bestfriend accept the fact ill have a boyfriend yall please
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Anonymous 3w

try setting firm boundaries with her, if she’s like joking / being mean and if she keeps breaking that boundary then it’s okay to cut her off it’s also okay to cut her off if she’s like trying to “convert you” to being lesbian if that makes sense? like if she keeps saying you might be lesbian / have to try girls etc etc

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Anonymous 3w

Ooooooooooo. I don’t wanna bring this into the air. But I am a queer woman. Some part of her may be attracted to you without her even realizing it

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Anonymous 3w

Do you think there’s any possibility she’s into you?

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Anonymous 3w

my friend was like that and then i found out she was tryna get with me she kept giving me advice trying to sabotage my relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

It does completely depend on why she is seemingly getting mad about you being with men tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I’ve also had to learn over the years that I have to have different boundaries than two straight girls would have in a friendship. That’s a hard realization for a lot of ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Even with my straight friends (which is the majority of my friends), I’m mindful of any physicality or intimacy within the friendship bc I don’t want my brain to start seeing something that isn’t happening

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