he chose telling me I’m exhausting to love, publicly announcing to our mutual friends on social media that he pretended to love me, broke up with me on the day I found out my cousin committed WHILE he knew full well I was struggling with the fact that my grandpas memorial service, essentially, was coming up (and he knew my cousin had died that day too) over just being straight up and saying “I don’t see a future with you anymore” … after 2 years. Thats my soul crushing heartbreak story!
i was in love with my guy bsf for years and i thought he felt the same way cuz everyone around me said he did. i would do anything for his attention and approval. he’d say he loved me then push away. then lied and told the football team that we fucked bc he wanted cool points, but when i was actually down for it (had a lack of self respect), he didn’t want anything to do wit me. started dating my bsf behind my back and when i found out, he made me feel like i was delusional and to this day
Was together two years and he ended it. Right before finals. Spent the last two weeks of school and the whole summer depressed, stopped eating, made my anxiety 10x worse when I hadn’t been diagnosed yet, started getting insane panic attacks, and was started a different college in the fall. He was the last friend I had, and I lost him. Here I am a year later, living my best life!! It truly gets better.
Few years ago I was telling my sister about how my ex cheated on me, and the way I found out was from a “hey girl..” dm. Wanted to give an example and show her how I found my requested dms. In my requested dms was from another girl saying “hey girl…” about my (then) current boyfriend. Same thing happened 2x, just so happened that I found out while telling my sister about the first time😭 crazy how the world has its signs🥲
i’m confused on what happened. this ended almost 4 years ago. i was genuinely in love with him and everyone around me fed into my delusions making me think this guy really wanted me. i would wear revealing clothing around him just for his reaction, acted all seductive and very whore-y… it’s embarrassing tbh, idk my hormones were all over the place. i think he just strung me along bc i was the only one that wanted him before my new bsf came along. we both grew up fat in a fatphobic area