I promise once it’s happening you don’t really even be thinking about it
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Anonymous1d
i used to feel the same way but then i realized i don’t want to fuck anyone who wouldn’t genuinely find my whole self beautiful anyway. if you get the privilege of seeing it you have no place criticizing ‼️
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Anonymous1d
that & being so terrified to let loose and have fun. i can’t feel normal around anyone even sex is a performance for me there’s no fun in it
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Anonymous1d
this is not an unpopular opinion 😭
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Anonymous1d
this & the constant wonder of if it’s ever been better with someone else
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Anonymous1d
Omg I had the same TikTok, never reposted so fast
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Anonymous1d
Is that an unpopular opinion?
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Anonymous1d
i didn’t realize this was an unpopular opinion but ig a good chunk of my friends are trans so that would shift my overton window
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Anonymous18h
I agree with that
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Anonymous#11d
Most people would say "just lose weight then" or "just get plastic surgery" not even joking
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Anonymous#41d
i hate when guys talk shit abt curvy women like they don’t like ass and tits
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Anonymous#41d
i don’t think you even necessarily have to be overweight or want bigger boobs or ass or whatever to feel insecure ab your body, you can just be nervous showing it to people or be nervous how you’re positioned makes you look weird
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Anonymous#11d
exactly. but i don’t think women need to be insecure about their bodies regardless. even if overweight or something i still think all women are beautiful
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Anonymous#31d
i didn’t say they should be?😭
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Anonymous#11d
bro i’m not saying you did just making an observation jfc 😭
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Anonymous#31d
jfc you i wasn’t even responding to you to begin with
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Anonymous#31d
my comment was fully geared in responding to what the other person said. i wasn’t making any response to what you had said, i fully agree w what you had said
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Anonymous#11d
yo my bad chill 😭
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Anonymous#61d
i think it’s that but the bigger part is that sometimes people love us wholly and we still don’t believe them and think down on ourselves with intimacy
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Anonymous#31d
yeah i definitely also still feel like that sometimes. i just try to remind myself that if i trust the person to tell me the truth every other time, unless their actions speak louder than their words, i have no reason to disbelieve them on this particular matter 🫶
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Anonymous#722h
from my experience with cis friends, it’s not an unpopular opinion
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Anonymous#822h
no lol
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Anonymous#322h
Exactly this!! In my head where I can pretend I fully trust the person it’s a wonderful experience but in real life people suck so 😔✌️