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Guys I went on my first date Friday. And I can’t decide how I feel. Let’s just say the guy was very touchy grabby in public places and groped me multiple times without like anything leading up to this. Like literally on the street corner. Am i crazy for
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Anonymous 5w

Feeling slightly violated? When I told him I didn’t want to kiss him because I was already uncomfy at this point he backed off slightly but like I just feel like that’s not okay? Or am I completely out of touch with the dating realm? 😅

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Anonymous 5w

Girl no that was your first date, that’s insane behavior from him. Especially in public. I wouldn’t pursue anything further with him tbh, he could be dangerous if he’s willing to act like that in front of people

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Anonymous 5w

Girl nah I like to give the benefit of the doubt but it seems very sudden

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Like I kid you not in front of god and everyone on the street corner. And like it wasn’t like the feeling was reciprocated at all. I even told him before this that we was making me uncomfy because we were on a bench eating ice cream and he was getting handsy then. And then when I said I was ready to leave he was like “do you want to cuddle in my car?” Like no I want to go home Im uncomfortable. Like it wasn’t even clicking to him.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah. Like I said, if he’ll do that in public I can only imagine what he’d do in private. There’s also the chance he’s just not socially aware or hasn’t dated much, but that’s definitely not something you want to figure out the hard way.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Thank you for justifying my feelings because I’m just still in shock at the situation 🥲😅

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