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Girl Talk 8w
overthinking but is 4 months too early to say ily?
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Anonymous 8w

Nooo I said it after like a week and the relationship lasted a good few years. If it feels right then say it

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Anonymous 8w

i mean it’s all up to you and your timeline. but that’s too early for me

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Anonymous 8w

last serious relationship we said it immediately bc we were close friends for so long. So idk whats normal

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Anonymous 8w

tbh it’s subjective but the man should be saying this first, not the woman. i am a believer that the man should always like you more for a relationship to work. just make sure he isn’t love bombing. if he hasn’t said it yet, keep it to yourself.

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Anonymous 8w

No

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Anonymous 8w

Not at all. I said it two months in lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

really? when would you feel ready?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

probably after 9 months - 1 year

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

i respect wanting to really make sure you mean it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

yeah, i don’t wanna get caught up in the honeymoon phase and feel like i know someone more than i actually do

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

i agree. i wouldn’t want to say it first

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

They downvoting but ur right if we’re 4 months in and he hasn’t told me he loves me somethings wrong here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

that’s not what i said, i just said he should be the one saying it first. and make sure its not love bombing. if you want my honest opinion, i do think it’s a bit early.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

Damn fr? I didn’t know so many ppl felt that way. Regardless I still agree that he should say it first

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

would you feel differently if you were friends beforehand?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

depends on how long though and how close

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