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Girl Talk 12w
I just found out my bf had tinder downloaded while we were together for 5 years in highschool. Along with hinge and bumble. We broke up in 22 but are together now as of last year. What do I do? Is is still relevant?
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Anonymous 12w

i mean it’s definitely something worth talking to him about

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Anonymous 12w

why was seeking older women as a minor is he ok😭

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Anonymous 12w

Yeah he sounds super suspicious. He’s a cheater and even if you weren’t exclusive, lying about actively being with someone else is not okay because it increases your risk of illnesses and it’s absolutely your business to know if he is sleeping with other people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Idk. He was 17 so it’s weird but even weirder he had it the whole time we were together.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Idk how to bring it up at all. I went through his phone to see that, so it’s my fault that I’m having internal issues that lead me to do it but when I find that I don’t feel so bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

true, but maybe it was your gut telling you something for a reason. yeah you shouldn’t have gone thru his phone that one time but he shouldn’t have been on tinder for 5 years so

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

I know, I’m just so stuck. It’s a lose lose & even worse depending on the way the convo goes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

unfortunately it is super super super super, like extremely common.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

This is so the comment I need rn thanks 😆

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

was he talking to the girls? to me once a cheater always…unless he actually isn’t like that anymore and has proven himself than the point stands

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

lose lose but mostly for him it seems

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Idk yet I haven’t asked about anything. He did lie to me about taking another girl on a date when we were just casual last summer. Not exclusive I guess so I can’t be mad…. But he still never disclosed that or told me about it when we started dating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

There’s been some behaviors that lead me to think he might do the same this time around

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 12w

He’s clearly cheated before and is still keeping up with behaviors that aren’t honest to you. LEAVE HIM

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 12w

Idk if he slept w anyone else. He told me no, but as a teen boy into your 20s there’s no way you stay w 1 body your whole life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Ah I miss read what you were saying about the other girl and that it was just a date and not necessarily sex, but yeah I wouldn’t believe him about you being his only body.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 12w

That’s where I’m at too :( Ik if I just can’t believe that it’s true bc it sounds way too good to be true. He took the other girl on a date for her bday 2 days before he told me he loved me

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