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Is it ok for your bf to have a girl best friend that you can’t talk to or really meet cause she only wants to talk to him alone and has anxiety with new people because I’m trying to not let it get to me but she is comfortable talking to me …
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Anonymous 5w

He’s YOUR bf. It seems like there needs to be boundaries bc she shouldn’t feel like she has priority over him and he shouldn’t prioritize her over you all the time. Maybe start slow and try to be her friend first? There’s no reason for him to stop streaming the game for you. Are they telling secrets or something? Seems weird

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Anonymous 5w

I think your bf has no intentions w her, BUT she def has intentions w him. Boundaries need to be set or see needs big girl panties to become ur friend too

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Anonymous 5w

I’m actually mad for u

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Anonymous 5w

Hell no pls leave that’s weird as hell n u shouldn’t have to potentially deal w that forever or have to validate it to ur kids why daddy gets to have his own private friend who doesn’t like mommy bc only daddy’s makes her feel safe. Pls do urself a favor. Im actually begging you.

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Anonymous 5w

And they play games together and I asked to watch but she recently told him that it bothers her that he streams them for me

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Anonymous 5w

she wants him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

My ex had multiple girls like this and he ended up cheating on me. I’m not saying yours is gonna do the same, but I’d be cautious. Try to befriend her and then share your bf. Maybe all three of you can hang out and then eventually ween her off of him and you’ll get him to yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Yeah it was definitely me trying at first but I have given up he was always inviting me to play to it just meet her and talk and now he has just stopped inviting me and I just feel like I she comes first but wasn’t sure if I was just jealous or not lol now I just get upset if they play a story game that we are also playing and I refuse to play the game with him after and he gets mad at me for that but I just can’t find it to care anymore

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