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I was in a talking stage w a guy but he got a gf. But he’s also a really good friend in the end. It’s new as far as I’m aware. He still makes some what like romcom jokes to me? Examples below. And I’m just like.. is he flirting or?
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Anonymous 1d

imagine u were his gf hearing these comments being made. you couldn't imagine it because it's genuinely damn near cheating. continuing to talk to him is not a good look on your part, i'd definitely cut him loose and let him knw it doesn't feel like an appropriate friendship in light that he's in a relationship

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Anonymous 1d

i’m gonna go with you being genuinely clueless because otherwise it’s really messed up to entertain this behavior with a taken man (yes, he’s at fault as well but i disagree that women have no obligation not to talk to taken men, if not for her, than for yourself). bluntly, seems like he’s stringing you along so that you can be kept as an option in case the relationship with the girl he chose goes south. please respect yourself and remove this “friendship” from your life.

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Anonymous 1d

Me- blah blah calls him big guy Him- you think I’m big? Me- the biggest (he’s fr huge we all know) Him- let’s get married and move Me- (wtf?? I wish) Careful or I’ll tell your gf

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Anonymous 1d

Made a comment abt a dress that it was best on me and I had XYZ and toned to show off. He’s a big gym bro. So FR THANK YOU?? Umm loved that sorry. And I had an interview, I should do it naked to get that job. Or I did the interview. I should jerk odd to reward myself, he’s proud of me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

uh what’s that last bit about the interview

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yea asked abt my interview. It was good, said he’s proud of me. I should jerk myself off to reward myself, I deserve it? Like. Hear me out I get it, I’m a very ummm Bruh girl. I’m dumb asf tho I don’t get the flirting thing. A lot of like man humor I can just let go and laugh along sometimes. If that’s his level of humor or our relation then like. I get it. If not, then flirting?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Or did you mean the naked part lol yea like sex sells type humor joke there. I should dress slutty or better yet get naked for it or smth for it so like I get the job immediately but please it was a lady and she was older and is like a community type job lol so yes that was a joke but idk what he thinks is casual or a boundary or smth idk what I’m asking there

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

also, if you’re holding on to the hope that they will break up and you’ll get together (which you admitted) i would let that go. a man that is willing to flirt with his female “friends”in a relationship should not be a desirable partner to you.

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