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Girl Talk 17w
My bf and I have a very strict no porn rule in our relationship and I saw he was searching OF creators on Reddit. What should I do? I want to enforce this boundary so he doesn't do it again but idk the right way to do that
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Anonymous 17w

in my eyes, if he’s ok breaking that rule, he’s ok pushing other boundaries too. the fact that yall have talked about this before and he STILL did it is icky. i suggest being firm with him, let him know he fucked up. idk maybe after talking with him you’ll get a better feeling for whether or not you want to forgive him.

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Anonymous 17w

sorry to say but if you brought it up to him once and he disregarded it then he doesn’t respect you or the relationship. I had a boyfriend who kept going back to 🌽 even after I had multiple talks with him and told him I didn’t like it. Eventually it wore down the relationship and i ended things

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Anonymous 17w

It's also not so easy to just break up cuz we live together and have been dating 2.5 years

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Anonymous 17w

that’s cheating imo 😔 the trust has been broken and i don’t know if it’s worth saving this relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

i’ve been in this position and tried to stay but it only destroyed my self esteem

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

Yeah it’s cheating to me too plus he has broken the trust in the past too. However our lives are so intertwined and we just signed an apartment lease together so it’ll be tough to leave

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

it’ll be tough but not impossible. reach out to friends and family for support. it’s gonna suck for a few weeks but you’ve got this. choosing yourself over an unreliable relationship will be much easier than staying until you’re too destroyed to stay anymore. i’m so sorry this is happening to you. if you stay, he’ll continue to do it and might even get worse. you deserve someone that has more self control and no wandering eyes.

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