
I really don’t get it. I had terrible mental health when I was hooking up a lot, but it was terrible prior to that so not really causation. If anything, it helped build my confidence and social skills in a major way. Now I have a fiancé who knows my body count and loves me very much, and it’s just part of my history. Fun while it lasted 🤷🏻♀️ if anything, it taught me what I do and don’t like in a sexual partner so I can advocate for myself.
Same! I can talk to pretty much anyone now like we’re old friends, even if we just met for the first time 2 minutes before. I actually probably wouldn’t have even met my fiancé in the first place without that experience because he’s so attractive and I know my formerly shy, insecure ass would’ve NEVER thought she had a chance 😭