how do I get over my talking/dating stage who lovebombed me and discarded me after ghosting me 💔 I thought I could trust him but ig he only used me for fun
baby one thing you’ll realise is men are dogs and if there’s one there’s many. He played you for another girl, would you rather sit there and cry about it or get yourself together and find someone who wouldn’t do that?
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Anonymous1d
Did you like him or the way you felt around him? Focus on ppl who you genuinely enjoy as a person and make you feel happy being yourself. Ik it’s corny but it actually helps sm. Also he’s probably balding and still picks his nose so
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Anonymous1d
he played me so bad and idk how to cope. like I genuinely feel betrayed and I wish he was the good guy I thought he was
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Anonymous#11d
I knoww ☹️but this one js stings because I didn’t even have the intention of getting into anything and he js came into my life and things happens,it was too good to be true..
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AnonymousOP1d
it really was. You NEED to take them at their word. Honestly the more disdain u have for them the better bc it’s easier when they inevitably disappoint u
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Anonymous#11d
also I don’t know how to find good quality men, most the guys here in my college suck and I feel most of them r probably players too 1st impression that’s y I was so naive and fell for this guys act ☹️
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AnonymousOP1d
Aw I’m so sorry but same everyone at my uni lowk sucks
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Anonymous#11d
😞
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Anonymous#21d
I think both, I liked his appearance physically and the act he put around me, but I also felt rlly wanted for the first time. thank you though, you’re right, a man isn’t the end of the world but this experience def got me thinking really badly and differently of men now