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My bf says he doesn’t believe in marriage and that it is more so for women and it’s just a piece of paper for the government but really wants kids in the future…. I’m confused
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Anonymous 2d

tbh to me that sounds like a man who doesn’t believe in long-term commitment or responsibility… marriage can be much more than paper.

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Anonymous 2d

it sounds like he wants to pass on his bloodline and sees women as nothing but a vessel to do that. please get out of there girl, men like that are fucking vampires :(

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Anonymous 2d

So he wants a long term commitment (kids) but is afraid of long term commitment (marriage). Make it make sense

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Anonymous 2d

The fact he wants a lifelong commitment but doesn’t want the protections for said commitment is crazy

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Anonymous 2d

RUNNNNN!!!!! kids are a LIFELONG commitment, but he doesnt want to get MARRIED? marriage is a safety net for building families. if something were to happen to you or him or the kids (disability, death, etc).. ur basically fucked if ur not legally married.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Also the “it’s just a piece of paper” argument is so dumb to me because if it’s just a piece of paper WHY ARE YOU SO AFRAID TO SIGN IT!?!?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2d

I didn’t want to say it at first but it’s definitely because he knows that he wants to do things marriage gives protections for.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

HEAR ME OUT. him being against marriage may be an indicator that he has other abnormal beliefs (he might consume redpill content, conspiracy theorist, potentially be against vaccinations). these things run in the same online spheres

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

See this is why red pill content is designed to create the “male loneliness epidemic” cause it devalues women who don’t take the “traditional” path (marrying and having kids) then turns around and tells men not to marry because they’re not meant to be tied down or whatever bs reason they give.

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