
I fear you guys take social media wayyy too seriously. If men being in here bothers you and affects you that much, block them and continue to enjoy your experience. Especially since theres no mod in here to enforce the rules she wrote. Don’t stress yourself over their foolishness.
no you know what fine. Yoy want a convo so bad here: Why arent you taking it seriously? Sure this is just another "social media" but u can say that about anything, everything just "__", and this "just social media" is suppised to br a community for just women. What about me taking it seriously is bad? Why is it bad that I want this space to stay as just a community for women? why in ur opinion is it bad that I don't like seeing the space be trampled by ppl who aren't supposed to be here in the -
first place? Why should it only be the mod's job to take care of it when it's a community? the whole point of being a part of a community is being able to help out in the community. And even if we had a mod, its not like she could handle every single instance on her own, we always gelped her and pointed out things that needed to be taken down but now that she's gone its ok for men to take over the space just cause u dont care?
I understand wanting to protect the community, but I personally don’t think constantly engaging with or arguing about every man who shows up is actually helping. If there’s no moderation in place to address it, then there’s only so much regular members can realistically do. That’s why I’m not as invested in it as you are it’s not that I think the issue is okay, I just don’t think social media is worth that much energy when there’s no real solution being implemented.
At the end of the day, I think you just need to learn how to have decent conversations with people who have a different outlook. There was no need to try to belittle me or call me a “dumbass” simply because I don’t view the situation the same way you do. We can disagree without disrespecting each other. Have the day you deserve 💘
except that u are invested, if anything way more invested than me cause u sat in here made a comment saying u dont care then got mad I wouldn't have a conversation about it with u and are now sitting here talking about some "just have a conversation with someone who has a different outlook instead! its better". Thats you being invested. If me calling u a dumbass offends you then i think ur taking it too seriously too 🤷♀️ its just words. If you dont care why respond or comment at all?
if you want to be respectful why end ur half ass excuse for a response with "have the day that u deserve" u can disagree with me and be ok with men being in this space or whatever, but im still gonna call something i think someone is saying stupid like this was honestly a bigger waste of my time than just calling u dumb and moving on ✋💀
Babe… you asked a question on your post and I answered. I didn’t get upset because you wouldn’t have a conversation with me.. I simply saw how it was going nowhere because you insisted on calling me a man. And invested?? Ehhhh “I’m participating in this conversation because we’re having it” ≠ “I care deeply about this issue.”