Girl Talk on Yik Yak | so I recently found out about my bfs kinks (he doesn’t know i know) and idk how to approach the conversation. they’re really weird, and frankly break-up able things for me. what do i do?

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Girl Talk 2w

so I recently found out about my bfs kinks (he doesn’t know i know) and idk how to approach the conversation. they’re really weird, and frankly break-up able things for me. what do i do?

Anonymous 2w

do what you’re comfortable with, don’t change your feelings, body, and/or morals because a man likes something. i’d personally say to ask him about it and see what he says, it’s also possible he didn’t tell you because he knows what you’d like. it really depends on the man, but don’t do anything you’re uncomfortable with over a kink

Anonymous 2w

I mean, are they illegal or harmful? It sounds like he’s kept them private so I don’t know if I’d bring it up. If you can’t get past the knowledge of them, I’d find a different reason to break up with him so he still has that sense of security. If they’re illegal or harmful, have a conversation

Anonymous 2w

Talk to him ab it!

Anonymous

#1 2w

i don’t want to hurt his feelings, because i’m really not into the things he is and i don’t know if i can look at him the same anymore.

Anonymous

OP 2w

Im open to talking ab it these things can be tricky, sent u dm

Anonymous

#3 2w

they’re not illegal or harmful, just very out of the norm

Anonymous

OP 2w

Then you should either find a different reason for breaking up, or try to move past it since he’s not asking you to engage in them

Anonymous

#3 2w

the only thing is is that he’s posting about it on his twitter account that he follows me on (fake screen name but ik it’s him) and he’s saying he wishes i knew. so i don’t know if i bring it up in that sense because he clearly wants me to know but