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Been talking to this guy off hinge but I realized I think I may need to heal my attachment style before getting into anything serious. Do I tell him this?
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Anonymous 7w

Yourself comes first so just tell him u cant continue for personal reasons

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Anonymous 7w

if it’s been less than a month, he doesn’t need an in depth reason. just say “hey, i have some personal stuff going on, out of respect for you i don’t think we should continue this”. girl good for you for recognizing that!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

that’s perfect thank you 🙏 part of me says heal with a partner, but my sister identified a red flag I should probably listen to

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