Anonymous cyborgirl 11w

I don’t know. One of the girls I’ve known for like 2 years now and she’s never done me dirty but she does tend to have more than avg friend drama. The other two girls are her friends first but I’ve known them since like beginning of May and we have class literally every day together.

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Anonymous OP 11w

I tend to pretty quiet in study groups but I know my friend explained to the other girls that that’s just how I am, and it’s not because I’m not disinterested. I also tend to do better on exams than them and I know one of the girls gets really overwhelmed by that, so sometimes my main friend and that girl will study together separately - that’s chill! But the fact that they’re all together right now and didn’t tell me makes me so sad

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Anonymous #2 11w

They have my location, they know my schedule, I live less than 2 miles away from all of them, and they know I’m always down to study ☹️

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Anonymous OP 11w

They’re all in our classroom building right now and none of us have class today which means they all separately met there ☹️

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Anonymous OP 11w

i’m sorry i know that feeling…honestly for now i would just continue to be nice and friendly with them and observe how they treat you. watch again if they plan to hangout with out you and if they do, call them out on it

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Anonymous #2 11w

Yeah I mean girl A and girl B hang out a ton together separately because girl B will get super overwhelmed easily. But all three girls are there without me… like that can’t be a coincidence. How hard is it to send a text.

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Anonymous OP 11w

Thanks btw! I’ve never had something like this happen - like they are so open about it

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Anonymous OP 11w

It’s definitely bc you do better and it freaks out the other girl :///

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Anonymous OP 11w

when I was a freshman in college, these four girls, I was friends with weren’t friends with me and made a group chat without me and it’s because the guys in our friend group told them i was more attractive than them and I didn’t know that. apparently the guys also made a fuck list and I was on the top and the girls didn’t like that but I didn’t know of this at all and I even dropped the guys because I felt disgusted by that. after that i lost all my friends and didn’t talk to my hs friends as

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Anonymous OP 11w

as much anymore. it does really suck when people you think. Are your friends leave you out and that’s happened to me my whole life even in high school in middle school. Just wait to see what they do and if they keep treating you like that, take it from me and drop them. It’s so much better to be alone, then feel lonely around people who shouldn’t make you feel that way.

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Anonymous cyborgirl 11w

Which I get maybe not being super close with me but purposefully leaving me out of a group really upsets me. She also passes everything. No one is at risk of having to drop out

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Anonymous #2 11w

Yeah. I’m sorry abt ur situation. I’m kinda going thru something similar but with my high school best friend - she’s changed a lot recently and I think so have I. We aren’t as close anymore and I think that works for us. But these girls I’ll be in same 100 person program with for the next year and a half. So I feel like I’m stuck

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