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Do yall think it's selfish to be childfree by choice? I personally dont EVER see myself as a mom and keep getting called selfish
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Anonymous 12w

i think its insanely misogynistic to call a woman selfish for not having kids 😭

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Anonymous 12w

No tf. It's a million times worse to have kids if you don't actually want them

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Anonymous 12w

no… you can also turn back around and tell those same people that choosing to have kids is also selfish. most people have them for selfish reasons even if it’s not from a negative standpoint.

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Anonymous 12w

this isn’t selfish at all. i don’t want kids either.

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Anonymous 12w

Nah it’s not selfish, if anything a good portion of people have kids for selfish reasons (I want someone to take care of me when I’m old, I want someone to love me unconditionally, I want a mini me running around, I want to feel fulfilled, etc.)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

That's what i say! Like I'd rather regret not having them then regret having them

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