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i’m scared i have vaginismus but im even more scared that i dont and theres some unexplainable reason i cant loosen up
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Anonymous 1d

Can u put a tampon in?

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Anonymous 1d

It could be anxiety too. I was convinced for so long that I had vaginismus but it was definitely just anxiety. I loosen up a lot more when I’m high or buzzed (I promise there is consent I’m in a loving relationship) and it’s also gotten a lot better as a result of this relationship and feeling fully comfortable. I also didn’t try tampons until I lost my virginity bc I was so terrified of them and would lock up

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Anonymous 1d

What is that?

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Anonymous 1d

wait bc i might have this too

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Anonymous 1d

i have this issue - try female lube if you haven’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I can (only small and regs) but most of the time its uncomfortable so i use pads or bc

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

My mom said that, but we’re in a long term relationship and we’ve also tried when im tipsy, and i’m an avid smoker :/ I feel like a total lost cause. I feel like any man would’ve already left after 3/4 years no sex :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Is it like an intense pain or is it just really tight and uncomfortable? I’m sure there’s levels to vaginismus but what I’ve heard is that just sticking a finger in hurts like you’re being ripped apart

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Super tight n uncomfortable, and then it really really hurts. It feels like my skin is tearing even if its not

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