I don’t view marriage as an accomplishment it’s just one of those cool side things I may or may not do. Like I might buy a boat one day, very cool but I wouldn’t consider it a life achievement compared to a degree or business. we’ll see about the boat.
marriage is for sure optional and not for everyone, but it's still USUALLY a huge accomplishment. lots of times, a couple had to work really hard to get to that place, and it's worth lots of celebration!
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Anonymous3d
most people don't see it as an simple accomplishment but rather a celebration and joining of families
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Anonymous2d
i feel the same way about kids too. marriage and kids is the LEAST interesting thing about a person and it kills me when they make those things their entire personality. like please stand up and get a hobby or something
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Anonymous3d
kinda weird ass bitches get offended at a post like this move around 😂😂😂
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Anonymous#13d
uhhh yeah they do lol it’s the Disney effect
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AnonymousOP3d
Encouraging women to view marriage as their life accomplishment traces back waaaay farther than Disney. Today, there is a lot of variability in how women view marriage, based on cultural and socioeconomic backgrounds
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Anonymous#23d
I’m aware, I don’t need a history lesson. People, right now today, very much still panic when they’re approaching 30 and unmarried, so yeah, that causes it to be a high priority accomplishment for most people and moreso women.
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AnonymousOP3d
well idk what that is, I guess I was just going off of people I know in real life, never once have I met someone that sees it as an accomplishment or thinks it needs to come on a timeline
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Anonymous#33d
& it’s not one for me. so idk what this comment is supposed to be doing
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AnonymousOP3d
Ok?? I mean yeah, some people do. You have stated that you don’t. That’s fine for you, but everyone has their own goals for their life
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Anonymous#23d
okay and you commented on my post. so. yeah it is fine great actually!
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AnonymousOP2d
Uh girl its just them expressing how they feel about ur post, they r saying that it takes effort to get to marriage w someone so to them its an accomplishment if it all works out
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Anonymous#42d
right right right ….
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AnonymousOP2d
What else is it then?
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AnonymousOP2d
Nobodys offended ur just weird and got an attitude with everybody
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Anonymous#42d
get off my post thanks move around
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AnonymousOP2d
U act like a child
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Anonymous#42d
wish I gave a fuck
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Anonymous#42d
She didn’t ask for someone else’s opinion tho ? She said this is how she feels, she doesn’t need to be “proven” wrong
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AnonymousOP2d
They’re mad at you that your opinion is different and you’re not male centered, you’re good girl
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Anonymous#42d
Clearly people are offended lol
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Anonymous#62d
!!! mind you I want to be married I just don’t think it’s on the same level as graduating or having a successful business 😂
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Anonymous#62d
very much so
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Anonymous#61d
No u guys just dont know what the word “offended” means