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I don’t view marriage as an accomplishment it’s just one of those cool side things I may or may not do. Like I might buy a boat one day, very cool but I wouldn’t consider it a life achievement compared to a degree or business. we’ll see about the boat.
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Anonymous 3d

marriage is for sure optional and not for everyone, but it's still USUALLY a huge accomplishment. lots of times, a couple had to work really hard to get to that place, and it's worth lots of celebration!

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Anonymous 3d

most people don't see it as an simple accomplishment but rather a celebration and joining of families

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Anonymous 2d

i feel the same way about kids too. marriage and kids is the LEAST interesting thing about a person and it kills me when they make those things their entire personality. like please stand up and get a hobby or something

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Anonymous 3d

kinda weird ass bitches get offended at a post like this move around 😂😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

uhhh yeah they do lol it’s the Disney effect

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Encouraging women to view marriage as their life accomplishment traces back waaaay farther than Disney. Today, there is a lot of variability in how women view marriage, based on cultural and socioeconomic backgrounds

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

I’m aware, I don’t need a history lesson. People, right now today, very much still panic when they’re approaching 30 and unmarried, so yeah, that causes it to be a high priority accomplishment for most people and moreso women.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

well idk what that is, I guess I was just going off of people I know in real life, never once have I met someone that sees it as an accomplishment or thinks it needs to come on a timeline

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

& it’s not one for me. so idk what this comment is supposed to be doing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Ok?? I mean yeah, some people do. You have stated that you don’t. That’s fine for you, but everyone has their own goals for their life

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

okay and you commented on my post. so. yeah it is fine great actually!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Uh girl its just them expressing how they feel about ur post, they r saying that it takes effort to get to marriage w someone so to them its an accomplishment if it all works out

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

right right right ….

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

What else is it then?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Nobodys offended ur just weird and got an attitude with everybody

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

get off my post thanks move around

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

U act like a child

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

wish I gave a fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

She didn’t ask for someone else’s opinion tho ? She said this is how she feels, she doesn’t need to be “proven” wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

They’re mad at you that your opinion is different and you’re not male centered, you’re good girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

Clearly people are offended lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

!!! mind you I want to be married I just don’t think it’s on the same level as graduating or having a successful business 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

very much so

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

No u guys just dont know what the word “offended” means

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

oh but I do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah exactly. And your post starts with “I”

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