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A girl I’m friends with made a super big deal that she got away from her abusive ex. Went to a woman’s shelter and even blocked me because i didn’t know her boyfriend followed me, she also begged for money and help Now she’s back with the dick head 🤦‍♀️
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Anonymous 6w

Girl, she went to a woman’s shelter…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

And left the woman’s shelter to go back to her boyfriend

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

After all the help i gave her and all the money she raised she went back to him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

She successfully got out of the relationship and went right back to him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I think she’s just looking for honesty

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Wdym she’s looking for honesty. Everyone told her not to go back after she received money and had a safe place to stay Yet she went back

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

She also blocked everyone in the friend group after she went back

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Maybe she’s just paranoid someone fucked her ex

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I don’t think that’s why she’s worried. I think she’s just self isolating because her boyfriend said that if she cuts us off he’d get back with her, and i think she fell for that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Now whenever we reach out she blocks us again after sending her go fund me link. But whenever she posts it’s her buying fast food and Starbucks, even tho she doesn’t have a job/refuses to get a job

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I would ask her directly if she thinks one of yall fucked her ex. That’ll make her respond.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I’ll probably do that soon, imma have a friend group meeting about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Alr United Nations

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

It feels like the United Nations confronting the USA rn ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Does she have a unique mental illness?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I know from the past she was once diagnosed with BPD but she refuses the diagnosis and refuses her medication, but she also mentioned as well that her boyfriend won’t let her take her medication. So I’m not sure if she’s taking her medication or if she even has any

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Omg well there actually isn’t medication for BPD. Unlike Bipolar. It is treated through intense therapy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Then she’s probably lying about the medication thing, i don’t know much about BPD, all i know about it from her so thanks for educating me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

She’s got a lot of mental problems which is why she’s so attached to her mentally ill boyfriend

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

there aren’t any medication specially for bpd, but people with bpd can take medications (like ones used for anxiety or depression) that might make their symptoms less severe

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