A girl I’m friends with made a super big deal that she got away from her abusive ex. Went to a woman’s shelter and even blocked me because i didn’t know her boyfriend followed me, she also begged for money and help
Now she’s back with the dick head 🤦♀️
And left the woman’s shelter to go back to her boyfriend
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Anonymous#16w
After all the help i gave her and all the money she raised she went back to him
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Anonymous#16w
She successfully got out of the relationship and went right back to him
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AnonymousOP6w
I think she’s just looking for honesty
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Anonymous#16w
Wdym she’s looking for honesty. Everyone told her not to go back after she received money and had a safe place to stay
Yet she went back
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Anonymous#16w
She also blocked everyone in the friend group after she went back
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AnonymousOP6w
Maybe she’s just paranoid someone fucked her ex
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Anonymous#16w
I don’t think that’s why she’s worried. I think she’s just self isolating because her boyfriend said that if she cuts us off he’d get back with her, and i think she fell for that
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Anonymous#16w
Now whenever we reach out she blocks us again after sending her go fund me link.
But whenever she posts it’s her buying fast food and Starbucks, even tho she doesn’t have a job/refuses to get a job
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AnonymousOP6w
I would ask her directly if she thinks one of yall fucked her ex. That’ll make her respond.
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Anonymous#16w
I’ll probably do that soon, imma have a friend group meeting about it
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AnonymousOP6w
Alr United Nations
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Anonymous#16w
It feels like the United Nations confronting the USA rn ngl
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AnonymousOP6w
Does she have a unique mental illness?
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Anonymous#16w
I know from the past she was once diagnosed with BPD but she refuses the diagnosis and refuses her medication, but she also mentioned as well that her boyfriend won’t let her take her medication.
So I’m not sure if she’s taking her medication or if she even has any
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AnonymousOP6w
Omg well there actually isn’t medication for BPD. Unlike Bipolar. It is treated through intense therapy
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Anonymous#16w
Then she’s probably lying about the medication thing, i don’t know much about BPD, all i know about it from her so thanks for educating me
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Anonymous#16w
She’s got a lot of mental problems which is why she’s so attached to her mentally ill boyfriend
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AnonymousOP6w
there aren’t any medication specially for bpd, but people with bpd can take medications (like ones used for anxiety or depression) that might make their symptoms less severe