Anonymous cyborgirl 14w

Oh girl I’m so sorry. My dad tries to reach out whenever he wants and it pisses me off cuz that guy is worse than me when it comes to being chronically online but fails to send a text back for like months at a time. So I just kinda ignore him until I feel like texting him back. I’m sorry your dad did that tho ☹️ really wish people weren’t able to become parents if they didn’t want that role or care for the role for that matter

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Anonymous swimreaper 14w

Thank you, I blocked him for four months now :/ Also that’s really frustrating your dad is so entitled and feels like he can just intrude into ur life whenever he wants but doesn’t actually make the effort to be consistent with it like wtf!!! Very scummy!!!!! Im glad youre keeping your distance…

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Anonymous #2 14w

ohmygod 😦

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Anonymous #2 14w

terrrible terrible i hope he did nothing to u but my intuition says otherwise

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Anonymous cyborgirl 14w

Yeah sucks tho cuz I have a half sister and I barely talk to her. We do text sometimes but we kinda just run outta topics and since we didn’t grow up together (she’s in MX) we’re just completely different. Aside from the fact that I’m 21 and she’s 15. I’m oddly closer to my other half sister who I did grow up with and she turns 14 soon.

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Anonymous #2 14w

Jaw dropped cuz wtf but also I hope that you heal from that too. I can only imagine what it’s like to know your father could do such a thing. I relate in a way where my sisters dad did that to me and he’s a registered offender but didn’t do time. Just classes. Now it’s just a weird dynamic where we kinda just moved past it and talk civil and occasionally joke cuz of my sister but she doesn’t know about it. She just knows something happened which caused a divorce and the state involved 😬

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Anonymous swimreaper 14w

Honestly sometimes talking with your sister helps depending on the relationship and the situation. I met my dad when I was 7, stopped after I was 14- it was like trying to figure out a puzzle that had hella missing pieces and the more u find the more of a dark hole u go into. I seen him two years ago and found out I had a sister who was 18, her and I are close now and completely cut my dad off and our other sister. But we still sit down and talk about everything and for once I’ll feel heard

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Anonymous #2 14w

But I appreciate you boo for that, and hopefully you can too and hopefully have that bond. Ik some ppl don’t want to hear the answer while others will live their life trying to find them

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Anonymous cyborgirl 14w

He had made some comments but nothing physical thankfully since I was taken away as a kid. My sister tho- lived a life watching my dad and her mom (she was 15, my dad, 24- she did lie about her age but he continued after finding out so both kinda 🤮)

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