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Anyone else parents not understanding of the job market situation ? They seem to think I can just send my resume in and boom get work at a major hospital for 25+ an hour. I can’t even get a job at mcdonalds
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Anonymous 16w

Yeah. Also my aunts. I told them about two jobs I applied for and they were like “two?! You can work two 9-5 at the same time?” and I’m like “in this job market I probably won’t hear back from either of them”. And then I brought up one of the jobs like a day later and they were like “omg you got it!” Like no, I’m just saying I noticed that they are reviewing my application

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Anonymous 16w

my dad was like “well when we had you your mom was working a $15 an hour job like it’s fine you don’t have to be making a lot” so that would be like $27 now. and they are also rejecting me from the $15 an hour jobs

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Anonymous 16w

My parents berate me for not taking initiative in applying but I apply to several jobs a day and only ever get rejection emails. My dad just thinks I can walk into any place and ask for an application and they’ll hire me like it’s not the 80s anymore that’s not how shit works

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Anonymous 16w

when i applied to upwards of 100+ jobs and only got 2 offers i was being “lazy” and not applying to enough jobs, like no this market is just so hostile and it’s hard to keep up as a recent graduate

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Anonymous 16w

Yeah my mom thinks I’m not trying hard enough. She was like well if it’s easy for me why isn’t it the same for you and got mad that I’m laid off. Like I need money just as bad as y’all stop harassing me.

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Anonymous 15w

LITERALLY!!! my dad told me "just walk in and ask for a job" and i tried so hard to explain to him that that just does not work anymore and he was insistent that it does 😭 i hate it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

I had to do simple math for my dad cause he said a $40,000 salary was more than enough and that he was able to comfortably afford living on it when he graduated from college. I showed him what his 40k was equivalent to today and he was shocked

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

His rent in the city where I currently live used to be a couple hundred dollars. Now it’s a couple thousand

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

My dad is like “are you sure you’re checking your email” and it’s like im checking it, they just don’t get back lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

I just can’t do it anymore. I want to make the bare minimum. I want to live in a one room shoebox apartment in a shit area. I will eat ramen for breakfast lunch and dinner. I actually would be so down. But I can’t even do that. I just want a job and some sort of independence

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Yeah my dad told me I was just a bad interviewer even though multiple people have told me that I’m actually good at it

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Anonymous 15w

Yeah they really don’t understand how people are living paycheck to paycheck and are choosing not to have kids cause they can’t afford to have them

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Anonymous 15w

But yeah my parents like to tell me how hard it was “back when they were just getting out of college”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

When I was looking for a job my parents were horrible about it. I was spending hours everyday just applying to jobs, literally anything that I saw that I could feasibly do. And my parent called me lazy and told me I wasn’t trying hard enough when I would take a break. Like I couldn’t sit at the computer applying for jobs 24/7 but I guess that’s what they wanted?

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