Anonymous #4 10w

is it not the same thing as that one Facebook group where u post a guy and ask if anyone has dated him I forget the name

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Anonymous OP 10w

i think it’s a little different but both of those things are gross in my opinion

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Anonymous #4 10w

I think it’s weird to post if it was just a bad breakup or some ppl post guys they just met on there for “tea” which I think is weird. My ex is sexual predator that I found out later had charges for “sexual misconduct with a minor > 15” bc I knew him by his nickname vs legal name so that’s why I posted him

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Anonymous #3 10w

I got mixed feelings bc like at my college there was an excel sheet passed around that was basically a “blacklist” of rapey guys who roofied etc and it was clutch. The issue is trolls ruin everything

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Anonymous OP 10w

Yes I think it’s only good for actual abuse like that

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Anonymous #3 10w

i agree. cheating sucks but it’s not enough of an offense. someone who is a predator and a real threat to safety is different. i think these are essential in our communities bc our justice system is shit but i’m always wary when it comes to being online at a mass scale

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