this is gonna sound so rude of me, but I genuinely cannot read any of the posts that have “good backup” because they are so insanely batshit crazy that i can’t listen to them 😭 most of them act like she’s under a conservatorship or some shit that’s why she can’t be openly gay. some other theories were because she’s “had too many boyfriends and can’t keep any of them” which is just gross imo