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I need advice, I have a wonderful bf, he’s perfect in every way but I just don’t feel anything towards him. I just can’t love him more than platonically and I feel awful because it’s not his fault. But he’s done nothing wrong idk
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Anonymous 19h

"To remain with someone out of guilt is to mistake the avoidance of pain for an act of love." "There is a peculiar cruelty in giving someone the illusion of being loved simply because they have done nothing to deserve rejection." "Sometimes the kindest thing we can offer someone is the truth that hurts today rather than the hope that destroys tomorrow."

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Anonymous 19h

You need to leave him and make sure he knows it’s not his fault, you’re doing way worse by keeping him with someone who can’t love him than if you break up.

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Anonymous 19h

I’m in the same situation girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

I’ll have to talk to him. The more I spent time with him, the more I realized my affection towards him was platonic. He’s more like a close friend to me, I just don’t love him romantically. But I really do care for him

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