Anonymous #2 6w

that makes me feel sm better 😭

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Girl da fuck you mean “ew”

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If I were insensitive I would’ve just shitted on OP and talked more on her weight. I’m telling her directly that it’s not about men cuz why on gods green earth are we still letting men of all ppl make us feel like crap for existing. I’m not gonna point out what they may need to change the way they think but she ain’t growing emotionally or mentally if she continues to reduce herself like that yk? So kma

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I honestly have no idea how else to describe the way people have preferences for overweight ppl without sounding like it’s just a kink. Idk in my community they call overweight women tortas and it could hold the same value as saying someone were to be chubby. Some ppl find it offensive others don’t. Reality is that she acknowledges she’s overweight and she can choose to lose the weight or not but losing the weight over getting attention from more guys isn’t the way either.

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Anonymous #2 6w

I rather be direct than gentle parent every single person I’ve met that reduces themselves to the point that they feel less valuable compared to the person they may be attracted to cuz they put them on this high pedestal. First things first is change how you think about yourself if you really think your weight is the issue. Second thing is, the way you carry yourself gives off an energy. If you’re pessimistic about urself then some ppl would js leave

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I actually didn’t know how to word it so I agree you were a lot nicer about it. I’d say more like gentle parenting in a way which is great, I literally just couldn’t word it correctly and that was the only thing I could come up with. Like in my mind it’s like “girl no way you think that little of yourself stand tf up and think of everything you’ve done so far. All your accomplishments. Your education. Your career” but I didn’t wanna sound cheesy but here I am

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