Anonymous #2 3d

ew

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Anonymous #2 3d

that makes me feel sm better 😭

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Anonymous #1 3d

Girl da fuck you mean “ew”

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Anonymous #1 3d

i try but like the men i find attractive will hardly look at me then they end up with the skinniest girls here

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Anonymous #2 3d

i think insensitive b*tches are gross. that’s why i said ew. hope that helps

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Anonymous #1 3d

Awesome reply. Comparison is the thief of joy

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Anonymous #1 3d

If I were insensitive I would’ve just shitted on OP and talked more on her weight. I’m telling her directly that it’s not about men cuz why on gods green earth are we still letting men of all ppl make us feel like crap for existing. I’m not gonna point out what they may need to change the way they think but she ain’t growing emotionally or mentally if she continues to reduce herself like that yk? So kma

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Anonymous OP 3d

ik that feeling so well trust but there comes a point in time when it really does stop mattering. idk where you live but it’s cold on the east coast. from now until April it’s GRIND TIMEEEEE. do things that you love and eat healthy food and try to exercise once a day. the more you love yourself/the way you look the less it matters what those fuckasses think of you

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Anonymous #3 3d

love you. i live by that quote.

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Anonymous #2 3d

so you were insensitive and still are. and chubby chasers is just so weird… like how are you coming at her for “reducing” herself and in the same breath are perfectly okay with chubby chasers being a thing LMAOO being with a man who’s with you cuz of a kink is like the ultimate form of self reduction. save your words 🤚🏼

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Anonymous #1 3d

I honestly have no idea how else to describe the way people have preferences for overweight ppl without sounding like it’s just a kink. Idk in my community they call overweight women tortas and it could hold the same value as saying someone were to be chubby. Some ppl find it offensive others don’t. Reality is that she acknowledges she’s overweight and she can choose to lose the weight or not but losing the weight over getting attention from more guys isn’t the way either.

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Anonymous #2 3d

you could’ve described preference the exact same way i did directly above you. we’re saying the same thing here your wording is just not cute

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Anonymous #2 3d

I rather be direct than gentle parent every single person I’ve met that reduces themselves to the point that they feel less valuable compared to the person they may be attracted to cuz they put them on this high pedestal. First things first is change how you think about yourself if you really think your weight is the issue. Second thing is, the way you carry yourself gives off an energy. If you’re pessimistic about urself then some ppl would js leave

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Anonymous #1 3d

I actually didn’t know how to word it so I agree you were a lot nicer about it. I’d say more like gentle parenting in a way which is great, I literally just couldn’t word it correctly and that was the only thing I could come up with. Like in my mind it’s like “girl no way you think that little of yourself stand tf up and think of everything you’ve done so far. All your accomplishments. Your education. Your career” but I didn’t wanna sound cheesy but here I am

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Anonymous #2 3d

ma’am this is the internet. you’re talking to strangers. you don’t know a single damn thing. the girl probably just needed a few kind words of encouragement not for fucking kim jong un to come out and start telling her exactly what needs to happen

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Anonymous #3 3d

i’m sure you mean this in a nice way. but this quote always bothers me sm😭like i’m fat. i’ve been fat for 5 years or so now. i know comparison is the thief of joy, but i have no choice but to compare and BE compared. like everyday is a reminder that i am treated differently than skinny pretty girls. and ive tried to ignore that fact, and got shamed for being too confident. like it really is not that simple idk.

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Anonymous #4 3d

society is the reason why you feel like you have to compare yourself. your experience is very valid and it’s only because of the way people treat you, not because of who you are. I hope you can one day not feel like you are undeserving just because of the oppression you face for being fat. you are loved and will find love despite how society may treat you

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