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locked out of my apartment. my bf has been w his friends since 9. i’ve been needing to pee for the last 3-4 hrs. i’m sitting in front of his house crying. he won’t come home bc they’re smoking a blunt. it’s 3:30 and i’m too scared to go to a gas station.
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Anonymous 12w

If you’re posting this on an anonymous app for advice you already want to break up with him. Break up with him.

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Anonymous 12w

when he comes back break up with him. and then pack up ur stuff and call your parents or other relatives or friends whatever for help. he doesn't give a shit about you. this behavior is unacceptable. if this happened to me my bf would have left 20 min before i texted him. you deserve better.

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Anonymous 12w

OP can we get an update to make sure you’re okay? :(

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Anonymous 12w

Update OP?

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Anonymous 12w

I mean it’s not his fault you locked urself out???? Hello

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Anonymous 12w

around 3:30 am his phone died and i heard nothing from him after that. eventually it was 5-5:30 am when i had no choice but to go back to my roomie’s bf’s apartment. by then i was freaking out bc i had no idea what was going on and he always comes home but this time was different. i heard back from one of his friends around 6:30 to say my bf wasn’t there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

i wasn’t asking for advice i was just venting

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

That’s alright too. Do you have OCD by chance?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

if i do its undiagnosed. i was at my roomies bf’s apartment and theres only one bathroom in the bedroom and they’re SLUMPED. i had a place to chill but i didnt have access to the bathroom. i’m not in a safe town per say hence why i dont want to go to a gas station this late.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

it’s safer for me to sit and wait in front of his house than to go to a gas station alone.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Do you have Uber? Go home maybe

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Just knock the fuck out of the door until they let you in. That’s what I would do if it was my partner lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Ig it depends on your relationship/ how long y’all have been dating lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

my bf isn’t here he’s at his friends apartment. i don’t want to scare his dad or his dog bc his dog is very protective. we’ve been dating a yr. ik he was going out tn but getting locked out and no bathroom was not part of our plan.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

i’ve been doing hw since he went w his friends so pushing 5-6 hrs of study time. i drove for 5 hrs today. im tired. A GIRL JUST NEEDS TO PEEEEEEEEE

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

never thought i’d cry bc of having to use a bathroom this is a new one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

i managed to drive from my roomies bf’s apartment to my bf’s house. he hasn’t seen his friends in a fat min. i was trying to respect that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Just pee outside honestly. Is there a park nearby? How is the weather? Is there somewhere you can just hang for a sec?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

it’s windy. i’m just gonna have to go to a gas station. but im freaking out ive never gone this late by myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

oh and tell ur dad what he did if you can. he'll take care of it too

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

IT DEPENDS, if op accepts this behavior her dad very well might be abusive too lol

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Anonymous replying to -> cyborgirl 12w

eh it depends it's not that black and white. my dad was emotionally abusive growing up but if something like this happened to me he'd be on his ass like no other

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

has he avenged any of your former boyfriends :o

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Anonymous replying to -> cyborgirl 12w

no but he's prepared to just in case. he's very overprotective lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

mainly because the bf i have now is my first one ever lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Like do you want him to get a DUI orrrrr

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

at this point i’m full on anxiety mode like whole body shakes. his dad told me to call the non-emergency police but ik they couldn’t do much. around 7:15 he called me and i left for a bit to compose myself. we’ve talked ab it a little bit but not much. i finally slept for a little bit. it i woke back up to continue moving out of my apartment before i move to start a new job

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

no actually i wanted to drop him off and pick him up. he argued against it.

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