
Part of consent is it having the ability to take away that consent. If she didn’t want to engage any more, at any point, it’s 🍇. Apart of being intoxicated beyond consent is not remembering or losing autonomy. Agreeing to experiment with drugs doesn’t mean agreeing to try that many at that dosage. Agreeing to engage with sexual acts with one or some men doesn’t equal being “offered” to a whole group chat. Agreeing to a sexual act doesn’t mean agreeing to 7 hours.
the victim should be validated but we shouldn’t attack the defendants before any trial process, i mean a mother in the midwest had her window smashed in because her son had the same name as one of the men at cornell. vigilantism is super dangerous. there too many self-righteous professional typers out there ngl
Oh okay! So I think it’s important to say that OP didn’t say that, OP’s point is that protecting our daughters isn’t the only proactive way to help, it’s also influenced by how we raise our sons. OP never calls out anyone and even says it’s not a response. I do not know you or your intentions ! Especially as a man on Girl Talk. But if you feel as though you were raised right and meet those listed asks. Then this post should feel like a pat on the back for you and your parents, not an attack!
no one said all men but that’s not the point. we’re not talking about the men who don’t rape we’re talking about the ones that do. i did say men’s terrible actions because why are you sitting in this comment section instead of saying rape is wrong youre defensive and trying to spin my words to make urself look like a good person. “terrible actions” arent just rape and sa, it’s the defensive not all men arguments too.
protect your daughters is still a good sentiment, then. I was assuming the anger was directed at “protect your daughters” being used as an excuse for poor behaviors from men but if it is just being spoken generally and not as a deflection from the real problems we face then i don’t really see the issue. daughters and sons should both be protected and educated alike.