I’ve learned people use other people’s situations, mainly bad, as ways to bond with other people. Even strangers or people that don’t know you. So to keep that at a minimum, I tell no one nothing. My friends even get the watered down version if I don’t trust them enough or they’ve sat and told me other people’s business.

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Remind yourself you don’t owe anybody anything you didn’t ask for, and allow yourself to take up space, no glue no borax required

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