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Girl Talk 16w
what are things i should discuss with my boyfriend before he proposes? we are talking about getting engaged and i’ve looked at websites, but are there things i should bring up that are just things you wouldn’t think of to ask or discuss
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Anonymous 16w

Have you guys talked about wanting/not wanting kids? Plans after marriage?

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Anonymous 16w

we’ve talked about the basics of stuff (possible time line, life goals, kids, grad school, where to live, financial goals and expectations, careers, etc) but i feel like there’s more i’m just missing yo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

yes! we have very similar life goals, ideal conditions to have kids and how many, where we’d like to live and places we’d be open to living, me going to grad school and him working, and much more on those topics

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

so like kids has a lot. what are the views kn “punishments, dating, age appropriate content, technology, does he want u to keep working during pregnancy, what kind of schools are ideal. otherwise just like does he have any debt, when does he hope to retire by, how much interaction do u want with ur own/each others families

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

ooo i didn’t think abt retirement!! the others we mostly touched on especially with kids and the only thing we aren’t sure abt is public or private but we plan to look more into it when we are settled and at that step and see what public school they’ve be zoned for/ what private options are near

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