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i don’t wanna ghost the guy but he’s like really clingy already before our first date, maybe not clingy but he’s like “gotta get my own place and have u over” or “ima not hold your hand tomorrow” just stuff like that. i kinda wanna cancel our date…
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Anonymous 2w

(Not a girl) Just be up front and say that you don't think you'd be a good match anymore

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Anonymous 2w

u haven't gone on the date so there's 1000% still time to text and say hey sorry for the last minute text but i don't think im feeling this. i wish u the best with dating

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

we made plans for tmrw 😔 idk what to do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

he’s like saying future plans before our first date and saying “ohhh well i’ll take ya to florida” or “well my mom can do my nails for ya”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I'd say just go to it and then say you didn't feel a connection afterwards. It's your first date, that's reasonable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

LOL yeah that would make me question everything too I don't blame you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

i've done this before bc sometimes u can just tell when someone has weird vibes that don't match

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

i know it’s the right thing to do but i feel bad. fuck.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

you'll feel even worse if u make urself go on a date with someone ur already getting weird vibes from!! u have to be selfish in dating sometimes, it's for ur mental sanity

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