Girl Talk on Yik Yak | women need to stick together and stop rewarding men with pussy. they do not deserve it and probably turned a blind eye to the cornell situation. no guy like that deserves access to your body. they’re dangerous and we are enabling this behavior from them.

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Girl Talk 15h

women need to stick together and stop rewarding men with pussy. they do not deserve it and probably turned a blind eye to the cornell situation. no guy like that deserves access to your body. they’re dangerous and we are enabling this behavior from them.

Anonymous 15h

Lowkey i find it strange that sex is framed as rewarding men with pussy, like its a two way street no?

Anonymous 15h

until men get their act together as a collective STOP ASSOCIATING W THEM.

Anonymous 15h

remember that brief yet glorious moment in time when western women were learning about the 4B movement :-(

Anonymous 12h

women will literally cry and complain about men’s behavior day in and day out on social media and then play stupid and act like they don’t comprehend why women are saying stop sleeping with men when the vast majority are either perpetuating or being bystanders to rape culture 😭 I’ve accepted we’re not making it out.

Anonymous 10h

I kinda get the point you’re trying to make but I also feel like this kinda rhetoric reduces women’s sexual interest as akin to passive objects where things can only be done to us vs full human beings with our own sexual autonomy.

Anonymous

#1 15h

Lwk I think women that frame it that way are lesbians who don’t know it. They hate sex with men, see it as something they do for men’s benefit and not something they want, so ideas like this take hold.

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Anonymous

#2 15h

Yk as a lesbian i def disagree. That frame of mind is basically the "homophobic men are actually gay" trole

Anonymous

#2 15h

well its a two way street, so the woman and man both get pleasure. i feel like the posts saying the men that havent made a stance or don’t care about it don’t deserve that pleasure, even if the woman does

Anonymous

#3 15h

But why are we framing it by distilling bodily autonomy into giving pussy? Like its kind of objectifying, no?

Anonymous

#1 15h

of course sex is a two way street. but men unfortunately don’t see it that way. they see it as something they’re doing TO you. and me personally im not okay with that and idk why any woman would be.

Anonymous

#1 15h

I think it’s because the majority of sexual encounters between straight men and women largely end up with the man finishing and not the woman, so the assumption is that men are the only ones ever benefiting from sex. Since you’re a lesbian and as a pan woman who’s slept with other women, “straight” sex is wildly different and not nearly as satisfying as queer sex.

Anonymous

#4 15h

If you think that isnt also a problem in lesbian relationships i have news for you

Anonymous

#1 15h

I never said it wasn’t. The fact of the matter is that it disproportionately affects straight women. Queer people are more likely to explore non traditional means of sex, whereas penetration is generally the default in straight sexual encounters.

Anonymous

#1 15h

I think that’s different. If this is a person that doesn’t enjoy sex with men and views it as something she only does for the benefit of men, I don’t think she actually desires men.

Anonymous

#5 15h

we need to go back to that. men do not deserve us!!!! idc if you’re horny MEN DONT DESERVE YOU!!!! LOCK TF IN!!!

Anonymous

#4 15h

I mean yeah im not denying that, it just gives me pause when i see ppl frame straight sex as giving pussy

Anonymous

#1 15h

I understand, I’m just trying to explain why it’s likely being framed that way.

Anonymous

OP 15h

no literally. it only enables shitty men to continue being shitty!!!!!!!!

Anonymous

#2 15h

Just cuz someone has distaste in having sex with men due to structural misogyny that doesnt make them a lesbian

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Anonymous 14h

Right and theres such a diff in talking ab structural patriarchy and misogyny and then performatively witholding from any rando

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Anonymous 14h

women abstaining/withholding from developing relationships (platonic, romantic, sexual) with men because men as a class are complacent in committing crimes against women is not villainizing, it’s a precaution

Anonymous

#5 13h

Yk when u put it like that im on board, im just cautious about precluding allyship from men with that strategy

Anonymous

#8 10h

nobody is denying your sexual autonomy . go use ur autonomy to stop having sex with losers who don’t gaf about you

Anonymous

#7 10h

you’re making way too much sense they’re not gonna like that

Anonymous

OP 9h

what who said anything about that